没有过不了的日子, 只有过不了的自己。
先处理心情再处理事情,脾气来了福气远了.
俗话说:'吃得苦中苦,方为人上人",一个人能够获得大家的尊敬,没有其他原因,就是能够克服一切困难。我们每个人最大的障碍,是自己 的毛病、烦恼、习气,能够一一克服,必定有成就,中国古人'悬梁刺股",为的就是克除自己的毛 病习气,否则要想成就,非常困难。 (净空法师)
不吃黄莲不知苦,事非经过不知难.
当您迷失了方向时不要忘了当初的理想。
成不傲,败不馁, 成功是结果, 失败是经历, 成败是人生。
有捨才有得。无私的教导是领导最崇尚的成就。
成熟的标志 : 学会妥协。退一步是为了形成合力。学会释怀。从容忽略胜过愤慨回击。学会宽容。宽容像春天的阳光,照耀别人也温暖自己。学会隐忍。隐而不发不是不发。学会简单。美丽和幸福都是简单,把握了简单就是不简单。学会换位思考。换个角度,世界就会大不相同。
生命五度 : 时间是生命的长度,越用越短; 视野是生命的宽度,越看越宽; 理想是生命的高度,越想越高;胸怀是生命的厚度,越堆越厚;积淀是生命的密度,越积越密。
人生的目标,在于向前,也在于拐弯。人生的成长,在于学习,也在于经历。人生的修养,在于顿悟,也在于静修。人生的态度,在于进取,也在于知足。人生的标准,在于看高,也在于适合。人生的质量,在于内容,也在于积淀。人生的幸福,在于得到,也在于放下。
淡泊是人生的一种坦然,坦然面对生命中的得失; 淡泊是人生的一种豁然,豁然对待人生中的进退.
不要在乎自己的長相,因爲能力不會寫在臉上. 不要在乎自己的背景,因為成功不會來自背景。比別人多一點行動力,成事能力自會源源不絕;比別人多一份自信心,成功達標終會成為事實。
不要在別人的嘴巴里找尊嚴,否則永遠卑微。不要在別人的眼光裡找快樂,否則永遠悲哀。隨時保持覺性、清楚、明白,真心愛自己、做自己的主人,人生才能擁有自在,才能展演的淋漓盡致,不留遺憾。
三樣東西一去不復返 - 時間, 生命, 青春. 三樣東西毁掉一個人 - 脾氣, 傲氣, 小氣. 三樣東西永不放棄 - 童真, 理想, 希望. 三樣東西最無價 - 爱情 ,善良, 友誼. 三樣東西最無常 - 成功, 財富, 夢想. 三樣東西成就人 - 天時, 地利, 人和. 三樣東西要珍惜 - 父母, 孩子, 眼前人. 三樣東西做事情 - 目標, 方法, 改善. 三樣東西交朋友 - 誠信, 奉献, 無私. 三樣東西把握好 - 機會, 人生, 婚姻. 三樣東西得到快樂 - 知足常樂 ,助人為樂, 自得其樂.
一砖一瓦造城堡,一步一脚印筑成就, 一花一果结満树.
李敖大師的七段話:
a、氣質是你一生最好的名牌。一個人若有氣質,遠比穿一身名牌更美,更受人肯定。想擁有氣質你甚至不必花一毛錢,只需注意自己的脾氣、端正自己的品格、淨化自己的思想、充實自己的內在,無形之中,你的談吐、態度、舉止都會烙印上一股清新而脫俗的標籤。
b、不要過分在乎身邊的人,也不要刻意去在意他人的事。在這世上,總會有人讓你悲傷、讓你嫉妒、讓你咬牙切齒。並不是他們有多壞,而是因為你很在乎。所以想心安,首先就要不在乎。你對事不在乎,它就傷害不到你;你對人不在乎,他就不會令你生氣。在乎了,你就已經輸了。什麼都不在乎的人,才是無敵的。
c、活得糊塗的人,容易幸福;活得清醒的人,容易煩惱。這是因為,清醒的人看得太真切,一較真,生活中便煩惱遍地;而糊塗的人,計較得少,雖然活得簡單粗糙,卻因此覓得了人生的大滋味。
d、欲成大器,先要大氣。大氣之人,語氣不驚不懼,性格不驕不躁,氣勢不張不揚,舉止不猥不瑣,靜得優雅,動得從容,行得灑脫。大氣之人,能安安心心做好本分的角色,認認真真干好手頭的事情,不為名利而爭鬥,不為錢財而糾結。大氣之人能讓自己的世界海闊天空,即便一時失意,終得大器晚成。
e、人生的忠告:再長的路,一步步也能走完;再短的路,不邁開雙腳也無法到達。 不要讓太多的昨天佔據你的今天。重複別人走過的路,是因為忽視了自己的雙腳。貪婪是最真實的貧窮,滿足是最真實的財富。經受過嚴寒的人,才知道太陽的溫暖;飽嚐人生艱辛的人,才懂得生命的可貴。
f、放下你的浮躁,放下你的懶惰,放下你的三分鐘熱度,放空你禁不住誘惑的大腦,放開你容易被任何事物吸引的眼睛,放淡你什麼都想聊兩句八卦的嘴巴,靜下心來好好做你該做的事,如果你也覺得自己該努力了的話。
g、愛人是路,朋友是樹,人生只有一條路,一條路上多棵樹,有錢的時候別迷路,缺錢的時候靠靠樹,幸福的時候莫忘路,休息的時候澆澆樹.
Time is like river flow, you cannot touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again.
As you reach forward with one hand, accept the advice of those who have gone before you, and the same manner reach back with the other hand to those who follow you, for life is a fragile chain of experiences held together by love. (by Tim Murtaugh)
Special people are those who have the ability to share their lives with others. They are honest in word and deed, there are sincere and compassionate and they always make sure that loves is a part of everything. (by Deanna Beisser)
Poverty, Luck and lack of contacts are merely constraints people carry in their minds. If you start with a positive attitude, half the job is done. (by Prahlad P. Chhabria)
What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. (by Ralph Waldo Emerson)
The purpose of life is not to be happy. it is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well. (by Ralph Waldo Emerson)
Those who do not know how to weep with their whole heart don't know how to laugh either. (by Golda Meir)
Your time is limited, so don't waste time living someone else's life.
Experience is a hard teacher. She gives the test first, the lesson afterwards. (by Dick Enberg)
Gain is the edge of loss, loss is the heart of gain. Having many difficulties perfects the being, having no difficulties ruin the being. (by Lao Tzu)
“Things may come to those who wait… but only the things left by those who hustle.” (by Abraham Lincoln)
Success is to achieve through many courageous baby steps.
We never get what we want, we never want what we get, We never have what we like, we never like what we have, And still we live and love, that is life.....
It's true that we don't know what we've got until it's gone, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back. Don't expect love in return, Just wait for it to grow in their heart. But if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone, but a lifetime to forget someone.
Don't go for look, they can deceive, Don't go for wealth, even that fades away, Go for someone who makes you smile. Because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
When you were born, you were crying, and everyone around you was smiling. Life your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling, and everyone around you is crying.
The happiest of people, don't necessarily have the best of everything. They just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
If your emotional life is a function of someone else's weaknesses, You disempower yourself, and empower those weaknesses to mess up your life. Don't allow yesterday holds tomorrow hostages.
Organizations can never succeed with Stockholder, not until they succeed in the Marketplace, and not by first succeeding in the Workplace. (by Stephen Covey)
"If you want to make a difference, you have to go against the norm sometimes, and that's why you make a difference. if you had gone with the norm, you wouldn't have made a difference anyway". (by Tan Sri Tony Fernandes, AirAsia Founder and group CEO)
"Get the best people for the job, challenge them to be the best, hold them accountable for results and work as a team to get things done. No one person knows or is good at everything." (by Tan Sri Liew Kee Sin, President and CEO of SP Setia)
"Most people return small favours, acknowledge medium ones and repay greater ones with ingratitude." (by Benjamin Franklin)
When opportunity comes by do we see it as a glass of bottle with half full or half empty?
Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is beauty, admire it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it. Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it. Life is a tragedy, confront it. Life is an adventure, dare it. Life is luck, make it. Life is too precious, do not destroy it. Life is life, fight for it.” (by Mother Teresa)
It's okay to be afraid of the things you don't understand.
Perfection is finally attained not when there is no longer anything to add, but when there is no longer anything to take away. (by Antoine de Saint Exupery)
The only place where you find success before work is in the dictionary. (by Marry V. Smith)
Leader without leadership will lead the ship to sink. Human without dignity will lead the life to misery.
As human beings, we're not perfect, and we're not supposed to be. But that's not always an easy thing for us to realize. The best we can do is to do the best we can. Give it our all and always give thanks. We don't make it alone in this world, we are lucky that there are people placed in our path to guide us, protect us and touch our lives. So that we can get through it all one day at a time. (by Julia Escobar)